What Mothers May Become
by Dulce Amor Niño April 2006

Nothing compares to a mother’s love for her child. She is best known for her selfless
nature – one who willingly sacrifices her own happiness for her family and
effortlessly devotes her time at home. These assertions may be stereotypical, but
are never too far from reality. People are born with only one mother, and the
inexplicable connection between a mother and child will never fade no matter
what and no matter when. No wonder, mothers play an exceptional role in our
lives. Different they may all seem, in attitudes or temperaments, but still,
they hold that special place in our hearts.
In
Philippine cinema, different roles of mothers are portrayed in the big screen.
Since these are films, we may regard them as fictitious but we can ask
ourselves… Do they happen in actuality? Yes, I think they do, in one way or
another. People have been enthusiastic to watch movies because they can identify
themselves with the stories or characters, if not for the simple reason of
leisure. In effect, they would not want to miss any movie that would
appropriately link them to what they are bound to watch. The following are some
movies that tackle the lives of mothers in their different roles, both in film
and reality:
Anak - Vilma Santos (Josie) plays a mother trapped in a dilemma, whether she would
choose providing for her family by working abroad, or being with them when she
is most needed. In contrast to her sacrifices is a nonchalant and ungrateful
daughter, played by Claudine Barretto (Carla). Unknown to Josie, her two elder
children harbor a deep and painful resentment toward her. In their minds, their
mother does not care for them. Josie desperately continues to try reaching out
to her children but they refuse her tender appeals. It was not too late, though,
for them to realize how much their mother has given of herself. It may not be
the physical presence that is apparent at all times, but the thought on how a
mother is willing to offer everything for her children despite her own
adversities.
Madrasta – In this movie, Sharon Cuneta (Mariel) plays the title role of being a
stepmother, or “madrasta” as the name itself suggests. She is not readily
accepted to be the woman who can replace the children’s biological mom. Rachel
(Claudine Barretto), Edward’s (Christopher de Leon) eldest child, has difficulty
turning over household responsibilities she had reluctantly accepted when her
mother left. Ryan (Patrick Garcia) is unforthcoming, putting the blame on
himself for his parents’ separation. Only Liza (Camille Prats), the youngest, is
cheerful and who wholeheartedly treats Mariel as her own mom whom she never had
before.
Tanging Yaman – Gloria Romero (Loleng) is an
aged mother stricken with a debilitating disease. From her, descends three
siblings who are already well settled with their respective families having
different lifestyles. The common thing that binds them is the love that their
mother holds for all of them -- Loleng’s children and grandchildren. However,
long-suppressed pains and bitterness get in their way as the siblings argue over
the prospect of selling a vast tract of land. The greatest challenge is not to
know who among them will get the most wealth and defeat the rest, but the true
test is to witness how the family matriarch falter with her illness. Loleng
lived a life with Christian self-offering until her demise.
In as much as these movies are heartwarming and inspiring, so is having a mother
in our midst. Once in a while, we are prompted by these types of movies which
have lessons to impart. They are not just reflections of the different roles
mothers act out in this stage of real life. But most importantly, these movies
are a constant reminder of mothers’ nurturing roles which are innate in them.
Yet, the scene from which a child cannot truly be separated from his/her mother
remains in the memories of people like us who love.
Certainly, one day is too short and is not
enough to thank our mothers for their heroic deeds. Just the same, it’s
uplifting to celebrate Mother’s Day because it’s the perfect moment when we give
them back the favor of being loved, getting our utmost attention and assuring
them that we will always be here as their sons and daughters.
A mother will forever be our
favorite protagonist who, indeed, deserves to be called a superstar!
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Comments or suggestions
Sources
http://www.abs-cbn/starcinema/movies/vilmasantos.htm,
http://www.abs-cbn/starcinema/movies/madrasta.html,
http://www.abs-cbn/starcinema/movies/tanging yaman/ filmo gromero.html
and
http://www.kabayancentral.com.ph
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